It's Time To Clean House

hello Luvys!

we as mothers, friends, sisters, students, wives, girlfriends, and so forth have major roles to play in our everyday lives. Some days we fall short, get frustrated, get fed up, don't want to be bothered, stop doing the things we love and develop bad habits but in the mist of it never forget who you are, why your here? your mission or purpose in life. So Let's take the time to clean House. 1. Figure out who you are as as person include things like your character - which is the basic essence of the person. What you psychologically rely upon, stand upon, look to, hold on within your self. The foundation of ability to live. Personality- the physical and mental attributes develop in response to environment, experiences, conditioning , and judgments about the same. knowing who you are as a person helps you increase your level of self-esteem, self-value, self-worth and self-love further it would make it hard for someone to try to tell you who you are or to define you. Love yourself enough to give yourself the best out life. Get rid of what you don't need, work on bad habits, surround yourself around like minded people to help you stay motivated. Get the heavy load of your heart, burdens of your back and chip of your shoulder because you can't make it through walking sideways. Put God first in all that you.

WHAT IT MEANS TO >>CLEAN HOUSE...

Every once in a while we have get rid of the old to welcome the new, change things to make something better, Get rid of old/bad company, sweep those dust busters out the door, redefine yourself, forgive and let God, get back on track, get rid of whatever it is that is holding you back, clear a new path to start over, free yourself, get rid of things that doesn't matter, to regain your focus, to regain your strength, to regain your confidence, redefine your social circle and the list can go on but you determine why you should clean house...

watching Diary of a tired black man, it raised a few questions about Black women,, this documentary was made based how men feel about us African American Women,, I talked to a friend yesterday just to get a outlook on how he felt about us black women, he does feel as though alot of the black women he meet are angry, rude and over powering ! okay it was said that we as black women are always angry we are very loud, we dont listen, we are rude and we don't respect our men and we like to see our black man at he worse,, ladies are we always angry, bitter, loud, rude, over powering, talk to much, keep drama going, hard to get along with,, and does it bother you to see a black man with a women outside of there race? share you ideas of what you think,,

PS. sorry and a negative definition was put behind the word strong black women once again what is a strong black women to you?

Desperate House Wives

well Im truly trying to figure out why is the show called desperate housewives,,, is it because there desperate to be house wives because majority of them are single,,,,

DETERMINATION

DETERMINATION ,, PUSH YOURSELVES TO BE GREAT AT ALL THAT YOU DO. IT TAKES HARD WORK AND DETERMINATION TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL. PROCRASTINATION CAUSES NOTHING BUT SET BACKS AND KEEPS IN ONE POSITION IN LIFE,, LIFE IS TO SHORT TO BE AT A STAND STILL UNLESS THAT'S WHERE YOU WANT TO BE,, SPEAKING WITH A LOT OF PEOPLE WHO ARE SO DETERMINED TO BE GREAT.. SAID IT TOOK A LOT OF DETERMINATION AND WILL POWER TO GET TO WHERE THEY ARE TODAY. FURTHER IT TAKES A LOT MORE EFFORT TO CONTINUE MOVING FORWARD.
IT WAS SAID ALONG DOWN THE ROAD THAT THEY HAVE CHOSEN WAS A STRUGGLE ALONG WITH A LIL DOUBT BUT THEY CONTINUE ON AND THE OUTCOME WAS TRULY GREAT,, NEVER GIVE UP ON YOURSELVES,, A MIND IS A TERRIBLE THING TO WASTE... TRUEDEEVAH

A Deevah's Gossup Corner: DO YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE?

A Deevah's Gossup Corner: DO YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE?: "WELL LADIES AND GENTS,,,, WHAT KIND OF PERSON ARE YOU?,, ARE YOU SOMEONE WHO HAVE A MIND OF THEIR OWN?, CAN YOU THINK FOR YOURSELF OR DO ..."

DO YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE?

WELL LADIES AND GENTS,,,, WHAT KIND OF PERSON ARE YOU?,, ARE YOU SOMEONE WHO HAVE A MIND OF THEIR OWN?, CAN YOU THINK FOR YOURSELF OR DO YOU NEED SOMEONE TO THINK FOR YOU? ARE YOU THE TYPE PERSON WHO LEADS THE WAY OR FOLLOW? DO YOU CONTROL YOUR OWN THOUGHTS OR DO YOU LET OTHERS DO SO? ARE YOU THE TYPE OF PERSON WHO LIVES LIFE WITHOUT A PURPOSE? THE QUESTIONS CAN GO ON. PEOPLE WILL ALWAYS TRY TO DEFINE YOU AND PUT SOME TYPE OF DEFINITION BEHIND YOUR NAME . CANT NOBODY TRULY DEFINE WHO YOU ARE BUT YOU. JUST FOOD FOR THOUGHT..

STEPPING OUT ON FAITH

STEPPING OUT ON FAITH,,,, SO MANY PEOPLE ARE VERY HESITANT ABOUT MOVING FORWARD IN LIFE, REACHING FOR THEIR GOALS, OR MAKING A MAJOR CHANGES. I TOO USE TO BE GUILTY OF THAT. AT TIMES WE GET COMFORTABLE WHERE WE ARE IN LIFE BECAUSE IT SEEMS SO SIMPLE. DEEP DOWN YOU HAVE THAT SOMETHING THAT YOU WANT TO ACCOMPLISH OR SOMETHING YOU WANT TO DO.. I LOOK AT LIKE, HEY! WE ONLY LIVE LIFE ONE TIME SO WHY NOT LIVE OUT LOUD,, WE ARE SUPPOSE TO BE SUCCESSFUL IN ALL THAT WE DO ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU KNOW YOU HAVE THE FIRE TO DO SOMETHING EXTRAVAGANT. DON'T LET THOSE DOUBTS AND WHAT IFS STAND IN YOUR WAY MOST OF ALL DON'T LET NOBODY STAND IN YOUR WAY OF BEING FIERCE, OUTGOING AND STRONG. PEOPLE HAVE A GOOD WAY, IN THIS GENERATION TO TRY TO STOP YOU FROM BEING SUCCESSFUL OR BEING HAPPY. LIVE LIFE AND LIVE IT TO THE FULLEST.