watching Diary of a tired black man, it raised a few questions about Black women,, this documentary was made based how men feel about us African American Women,, I talked to a friend yesterday just to get a outlook on how he felt about us black women, he does feel as though alot of the black women he meet are angry, rude and over powering ! okay it was said that we as black women are always angry we are very loud, we dont listen, we are rude and we don't respect our men and we like to see our black man at he worse,, ladies are we always angry, bitter, loud, rude, over powering, talk to much, keep drama going, hard to get along with,, and does it bother you to see a black man with a women outside of there race? share you ideas of what you think,,

PS. sorry and a negative definition was put behind the word strong black women once again what is a strong black women to you?

Desperate House Wives

well Im truly trying to figure out why is the show called desperate housewives,,, is it because there desperate to be house wives because majority of them are single,,,,

DETERMINATION

DETERMINATION ,, PUSH YOURSELVES TO BE GREAT AT ALL THAT YOU DO. IT TAKES HARD WORK AND DETERMINATION TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL. PROCRASTINATION CAUSES NOTHING BUT SET BACKS AND KEEPS IN ONE POSITION IN LIFE,, LIFE IS TO SHORT TO BE AT A STAND STILL UNLESS THAT'S WHERE YOU WANT TO BE,, SPEAKING WITH A LOT OF PEOPLE WHO ARE SO DETERMINED TO BE GREAT.. SAID IT TOOK A LOT OF DETERMINATION AND WILL POWER TO GET TO WHERE THEY ARE TODAY. FURTHER IT TAKES A LOT MORE EFFORT TO CONTINUE MOVING FORWARD.
IT WAS SAID ALONG DOWN THE ROAD THAT THEY HAVE CHOSEN WAS A STRUGGLE ALONG WITH A LIL DOUBT BUT THEY CONTINUE ON AND THE OUTCOME WAS TRULY GREAT,, NEVER GIVE UP ON YOURSELVES,, A MIND IS A TERRIBLE THING TO WASTE... TRUEDEEVAH

A Deevah's Gossup Corner: DO YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE?

A Deevah's Gossup Corner: DO YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE?: "WELL LADIES AND GENTS,,,, WHAT KIND OF PERSON ARE YOU?,, ARE YOU SOMEONE WHO HAVE A MIND OF THEIR OWN?, CAN YOU THINK FOR YOURSELF OR DO ..."

DO YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE?

WELL LADIES AND GENTS,,,, WHAT KIND OF PERSON ARE YOU?,, ARE YOU SOMEONE WHO HAVE A MIND OF THEIR OWN?, CAN YOU THINK FOR YOURSELF OR DO YOU NEED SOMEONE TO THINK FOR YOU? ARE YOU THE TYPE PERSON WHO LEADS THE WAY OR FOLLOW? DO YOU CONTROL YOUR OWN THOUGHTS OR DO YOU LET OTHERS DO SO? ARE YOU THE TYPE OF PERSON WHO LIVES LIFE WITHOUT A PURPOSE? THE QUESTIONS CAN GO ON. PEOPLE WILL ALWAYS TRY TO DEFINE YOU AND PUT SOME TYPE OF DEFINITION BEHIND YOUR NAME . CANT NOBODY TRULY DEFINE WHO YOU ARE BUT YOU. JUST FOOD FOR THOUGHT..

STEPPING OUT ON FAITH

STEPPING OUT ON FAITH,,,, SO MANY PEOPLE ARE VERY HESITANT ABOUT MOVING FORWARD IN LIFE, REACHING FOR THEIR GOALS, OR MAKING A MAJOR CHANGES. I TOO USE TO BE GUILTY OF THAT. AT TIMES WE GET COMFORTABLE WHERE WE ARE IN LIFE BECAUSE IT SEEMS SO SIMPLE. DEEP DOWN YOU HAVE THAT SOMETHING THAT YOU WANT TO ACCOMPLISH OR SOMETHING YOU WANT TO DO.. I LOOK AT LIKE, HEY! WE ONLY LIVE LIFE ONE TIME SO WHY NOT LIVE OUT LOUD,, WE ARE SUPPOSE TO BE SUCCESSFUL IN ALL THAT WE DO ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU KNOW YOU HAVE THE FIRE TO DO SOMETHING EXTRAVAGANT. DON'T LET THOSE DOUBTS AND WHAT IFS STAND IN YOUR WAY MOST OF ALL DON'T LET NOBODY STAND IN YOUR WAY OF BEING FIERCE, OUTGOING AND STRONG. PEOPLE HAVE A GOOD WAY, IN THIS GENERATION TO TRY TO STOP YOU FROM BEING SUCCESSFUL OR BEING HAPPY. LIVE LIFE AND LIVE IT TO THE FULLEST.

Not Good Enough

ok! We all know it's a Love war going on,, Some men say it's a lack of good women and the women say it's a lack of good men,, Is there there really a short coming of good individuals who are willing to submit and love one another? well from speaking to different men and women it's seems to me that ,, those who has been hurt by that one person they truly loved caused them to a lack of trust, afraid to love, to be fully open, so a wall was put up to guard them from having to experience that pain. well some people do guard there hearts but some don't. Many people take chances on love because love is what they want. But at times we are taking chances with the wrong people. further we submit ourselves to those who are not willing to give in return not talking about materialistic things. Love yourselves to know when it's time to let go, when it's time to submit and when it's time to walk away. All love isn't good love. We all have expectations and standards. You know what you want and need from someone. So if you know you want a man who is willing to work and be successful. Than why settle for a man who doesn't want nothing good for himself. If he don't want nothing good for himself what in the hell makes you think he gonna want and provide the goods for you? Men if you want a woman who will support you and respect you. Than don't go after a women who thinks she is better than you and is always willing to want more than what you can give. she's not going to respect you as a man. My point is we keep lowering our standards for others,, when your standards are tangible and realistic don't lower them for nobody. Learn to love yourselves before you can love somebody else. If you know you deserve the best than give yourself the best dont cut yourself short than your not going to be happy and everyone deserves to be happy, life is to short not to be..