Nightline Face-Off Black women

Is our standards too high are is are picking to slim?

Recently on the O and other talk shows gave us an overview the percentage of Single Black women. It was said that 70% of African American Women are single and that it is 1.8 million more black women than their are black men. Can this be the reason why some of the women can't find a good black man, or is it the fact that theres just a few good men out there and and/or is it a problem within us women. Ladies do you find yourselves lowering your standards because you feel like your obligated to? so that you can have the chance to find someone .watching a few of the youtubevideos of single black women were very interesting. Some of the business women whom were successful expect to find men who made double there salary and had a perfect pictured painted for the type of men that they were looking for,, so if your successful does your man need to make more money than you? or would you settle if he had average job and treated you like a queen? Sometimes finding someone is hard. majority of the women know what they want in a man but no one is perfect he is going to some type of flaw some were. willingness and commitment help develop a great relationship. It's good to love and to have someone who will appreciate you and fully understand you. sometimes it takes time for you to grow. Sometimes ladies we fall impatient and we just settle, not good. You should always have standards but It's not good to set standards that you cant meet, you cant expect a man to love you unconditionally especially when your love is not unconditional and it's just sometimes when he buys and gives you what you want. you get out of a relationship or friendship what you put in it. If you apply great things your gonna get great things, I'm not a relationship expert I just speaking from experience. it takes two people to love.. even though there are more black women than men. there are good men out there it might be a slim chance that we all might not find Mr right but I advise some women to step up there game and keep a good man when you see one. because what you don't want another women would have.

Hendering Yourself,,,,

sad to say but working within the community, I have came across so many individuals who blame society and others for there problems. There are so many opportunities that you can take a full advantage of. We all make choices in are lives, sometimes there wrong choices and right choices, but growing up we followed the rules of those who have raised us but as adults you are fully capable of making decisions for yourself. You know you commit certain crimes it's going to make it harder for you to be able to get a job, why do so but it's not the end of the road. I know few Men who have bad background histories and still made it all on top. Its all about your mind state and how you think about things. If you have no insight on moving up in the world most likely your going to be at a stand still. Majority of the people to day have their priorities twisted. so focused on the unnecessary than the necessary. now days it's necessary for you to have materialistic things that have no true value. not saying its not good to want materialistic things but sometimes it's some peoples main focus. too some of the ladies, It said to hear some women talk about other women when you all have nothing going for yourselves. why knock another women hustle especially when she is on her grind to be at her best. Somethings in life ladies you got to let go. some of us don't have time to sit around and keep track of how many baby daddies we got, or who sleeping with whose man. Some of us women is trying to build a foundation for our children, establish a business, work, or go to school. please stop abusing the welfare system if you don't need it, get ya ll lazy asses up and work. If Women can pull together and stop trying to hate so much we would be some powerful creatures. But I give credit to those women who are stepping there game up, trying to be about something. Ladies if you stop letting Jealousy control your emotions and thoughts you will be alright,, get that together,, Live through your mistake let them help you develop into a better individual, enjoy life and love always.