Is our standards too high are is are picking to slim?

Recently on the O and other talk shows gave us an overview the percentage of Single Black women. It was said that 70% of African American Women are single and that it is 1.8 million more black women than their are black men. Can this be the reason why some of the women can't find a good black man, or is it the fact that theres just a few good men out there and and/or is it a problem within us women. Ladies do you find yourselves lowering your standards because you feel like your obligated to? so that you can have the chance to find someone .watching a few of the youtubevideos of single black women were very interesting. Some of the business women whom were successful expect to find men who made double there salary and had a perfect pictured painted for the type of men that they were looking for,, so if your successful does your man need to make more money than you? or would you settle if he had average job and treated you like a queen? Sometimes finding someone is hard. majority of the women know what they want in a man but no one is perfect he is going to some type of flaw some were. willingness and commitment help develop a great relationship. It's good to love and to have someone who will appreciate you and fully understand you. sometimes it takes time for you to grow. Sometimes ladies we fall impatient and we just settle, not good. You should always have standards but It's not good to set standards that you cant meet, you cant expect a man to love you unconditionally especially when your love is not unconditional and it's just sometimes when he buys and gives you what you want. you get out of a relationship or friendship what you put in it. If you apply great things your gonna get great things, I'm not a relationship expert I just speaking from experience. it takes two people to love.. even though there are more black women than men. there are good men out there it might be a slim chance that we all might not find Mr right but I advise some women to step up there game and keep a good man when you see one. because what you don't want another women would have.