Hendering Yourself,,,,

sad to say but working within the community, I have came across so many individuals who blame society and others for there problems. There are so many opportunities that you can take a full advantage of. We all make choices in are lives, sometimes there wrong choices and right choices, but growing up we followed the rules of those who have raised us but as adults you are fully capable of making decisions for yourself. You know you commit certain crimes it's going to make it harder for you to be able to get a job, why do so but it's not the end of the road. I know few Men who have bad background histories and still made it all on top. Its all about your mind state and how you think about things. If you have no insight on moving up in the world most likely your going to be at a stand still. Majority of the people to day have their priorities twisted. so focused on the unnecessary than the necessary. now days it's necessary for you to have materialistic things that have no true value. not saying its not good to want materialistic things but sometimes it's some peoples main focus. too some of the ladies, It said to hear some women talk about other women when you all have nothing going for yourselves. why knock another women hustle especially when she is on her grind to be at her best. Somethings in life ladies you got to let go. some of us don't have time to sit around and keep track of how many baby daddies we got, or who sleeping with whose man. Some of us women is trying to build a foundation for our children, establish a business, work, or go to school. please stop abusing the welfare system if you don't need it, get ya ll lazy asses up and work. If Women can pull together and stop trying to hate so much we would be some powerful creatures. But I give credit to those women who are stepping there game up, trying to be about something. Ladies if you stop letting Jealousy control your emotions and thoughts you will be alright,, get that together,, Live through your mistake let them help you develop into a better individual, enjoy life and love always.